This Is the Way Introverts Pick Their Person

Introverts are the least interactive of people. That is simply why when an introvert is attracted to someone they do not directly approach them. Introverts can stay steady at observing the person they are attracted to for weeks or even months so that they are sure of the person before approaching them. Introverts HATE wasting time, so they make sure that a person is not going to be a waste of time for them before they actually get involved with that person. 

Introverts are not the kind of people who will settle for just any kind of relationship. They require deep emotional connectivity, understanding and full commitment in a relationship, only then will they feel secure with another person. They don’t dive in too deep too soon but once they are in and they have started trusting another person, they will give that person their 100%. They will love with full devotion and trust in you with all they’ve got. An introvert requires a secure and stable relationship with someone who is not afraid of taking first steps and speaking out their mind. Introverts avoid people who play any kinds of mind games in a relationship; they need things to be true, honest and straight forward. That is just how they are. 

An introvert looks for a person with whom they can confide in and with whom they can establish a deep philosophical connectivity. They do not like talking to people too much or strangers approaching or touching them hence they take a while to be physical in a relationship, but once they finally do become physical that means they are ready to give you their all and they can then be extremely intimate.

They require a partner who is as caring as they tend to be, as emotionally giving as they tend to be and as patient as they can be. Introverts do not get involved in a relationship just to fit in a set environment or certain people, they will only get involved when they are ready to and when they find someone willing to settle down with them whilst respecting their personal space and limits of personal preference.

A relationship means compromise and sharing a lot of your space and time and for an introvert sharing their personal space is the biggest compromise of all time, they will only do so when they find the one person with whom they can share their space without feeling invaded rather provided and secure.